Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

A Friend in Need's a Friend Indeed!

Brazilian coffee sacks.Coffee: the writer's friend! Image via Wikipedia
On the subject of a gift economy it is interesting to note that most friends operate on similar principles. When you give something to a friend you probably don't take out your notebook and write out what they owe you. It is like when you see two friends arguing over who will pay for lunch and one finally pays and refuses to accept money. Sure, these two friends will probably switch roles at a future lunch bit it is still something given without thought of reparations. If we expand this notion to families and circles of friends it becomes somewhat communal. Friends can eat out of your fridge, drink your coffee etc and not many people would mind. If you visit their house you can do the same. This is stepping into the realms of hospitality but you get my point.